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Trying to get the respect of the masses is a fool's game

Wealth

“If I am worth anything later, I am worth something now. For wheat is wheat, even if people think it is a grass in the beginning.” ― Vincent van Gogh

Relationships

I heard someone say "Trying to get respect of the masses is a fools game" and it got me thinking...

Ever notice how some brands spark obsessive devotion in some people and disgust in others?
 
Think Marmite. 
 
Unapologetically bold, and never afraid to be exactly what it is.
 
In marketing, this “love it or hate it” effect is often the secret to a brand’s power. By speaking directly to a specific tribe, brands create unforgettable experiences and a devoted following that feel like part of their identity is being spoken to.
 
In marketing it's often considered a novice move to create a brand that tries to please everyone. The end result is  bland and forgettable. They fade into the noise.
 
Yet, how often do we make the same mistake in our personal lives. We blend in, we stop our quirks from shining through just to fit other people’s expectations. 
 
It might feel safe, but it also robs us of honest, fulfilling connections.
 
Imagine if we all leaned into that Marmite mindset: fully ourselves, strong flavour, a little funky and we accepted that we won’t appeal to everyone.
 
Yes, we might have fewer friends, but the relationships we did have would be far deeper, grounded in genuine acceptance of who we truly are.
 
Much like a brand that magnetises its core audience, we could build relationships that stand the test of time because they’re built on authenticity, not fakeness. A much sweeter taste knowing someone likes you for you, rather than the idea of you.

Freedom

Journal prompt
What if, instead of pouring my energy into worrying about the past, fearing the future, or seeking others’ approval, you channelled it all into one small, positive action you can take today?

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